The creation of a trust and estate plan includes spending a certain amount of time choosing the people who will be your fiduciaries—the people who will carry out your wishes.  One of the most important fiduciaries is your trustee, who is involved in just about every aspect of the administration of your trust. Most people choose someone close to them to serve as trustee: a best friend, son or daughter, brother or sister. Choosing someone who knows you and your family to serve in this role can be beneficial in many ways, but if that person doesn’t have a financial or legal background the responsibilities can be overwhelming!

If you want to give your trustee a head start (or if you’ve been nominated as a trustee and need a little help yourself) this article from the Elder Law Answers website shares “9 Do’s and 1 Don’t” of being a trustee. These suggestions will help a potential or new trustee better understand their responsibilities and the scope of the job to come.  Advice such as #1, “Do read the trust document”; or #3, “Do keep the best interests of the beneficiaries in mind at all times” may seem obvious now, but it’s not always so clear when you’re beset by insistent and emotional relatives.  The more technical tips such as #2, “Do create a checking account for the trust”; and #9, “Do file income tax returns for the trust” are invaluable starter-steps for someone who has never done this before.

But the most important tip to remember is the one don’t: #10, “Don’t fly solo. Get professional advice to make sure you are correctly fulfilling your role.” If you or the people you’ve chosen as your trustee are ever in doubt, please don’t hesitate to call our office for help.

How much do you know about estate plans?  And how do you know when you need one?

Many people have a vague feeling that they should execute some kind of estate plan eventually, but think (hope) that they really don’t need one right now. On our blog we spend a lot of time telling people that they do need an estate plan, and they probably need one right now—or yesterday!—and we hope we do a good job of explaining why you need one.  But maybe it’s time for you to decide when the time is right.  This quiz will help you determine just when (and if) you need to do some estate planning.

1. Do you own a house?

Owning your own home means you have at least one significant asset, which affects your need for planning in a number of ways: First, a piece of property cannot be split between people, it will have to be sold (which can take months or even years) and the proceeds divided among your heirs—often at a loss, especially if the house was undervalued to sell quickly. Second, many people who feel they have “small estates and won’t have to worry about Probate or the estate tax” are surprised when they find that the value of their home does indeed push their estate over the line. Third, if you are married you may need to make provisions for your spouse if you would like them to be able to continue to live in your home.

2. Do you have minor children?

If you have minor children and have not made provisions for them in case of your death or incapacity the government will be in charge of their futures. This could mean your children are put in the care of foster parents or become wards of the state.  That is not a chance you want to take.

3. Do you want your heirs to have to wait months (or years) before receiving an inheritance that is only a percentage of what you left them?

Probate is a long and expensive process.  Without a plan in place your assets will have to be probated before they can be distributed. Not only does this often take years, but the probate fees (which can be considerable) are taken out of your estate—leaving less for your heirs.

4. Do you know how you want to spend your final moments?

Most people don’t die quickly and quietly at the ripe old age of 98.  Most people fall victim to accidents, illness or dementia—unable to make their own health care decisions. Without a healthcare directive or living will that specifically outlines your wishes and instructions for your health care and nominating an agent to carry out those wishes, you could end up in a Terri Schiavo situation—costing your loved ones both financially and emotionally.

(NOTE: There is much that goes into your estate plan decision-making; this is only a partial quiz, and not a planning tool. Please contact our office for more information and an in depth interview to determine what kind of planning will be best for you and your family.)

Most people die in a hospital; sometimes after a long and slow decline, sometimes after a quick and unexpected tragedy.  If you are an executor of the deceased’s estate this is significant because it means that there are usually final medical bills to be paid. What most executors do not know is that these final medical bills are not necessarily just like all the other final expenses, especially when it comes to filing a final tax return for the estate; this article from The Wall Street Journal  explains why.

“…When a person incurs medical expenses and dies before they are paid, the executor of the decedent’s estate can elect to treat those medical expenses as if they were paid when incurred – as long as the estate pays the expenses within one year after the date of death. In other words, this election allows those expenses to be deducted on the decedent’s final Form 1040, even though they were not paid by the date of death.”

Many executors may not think of this because medical expenses can only be deducted if they exceed a certain percentage of the deceased’s adjusted gross income (7.5% to be exact); but health care being what it is, final medical expenses can quite often reach this point.

This sounds easy, but be careful if the deceased’s estate exceeds the $3.5 million estate tax exemption—you may want to look into other options.  The Wall Street Journal suggests that in this case it might be beneficial to “forgo the election and count the unpaid medical expenses as liabilities on the estate tax return.”

As the executor of an estate you may have more options than you are aware of when it comes to taxes, probate, and achieving the best results for the beneficiaries.  If you are unsure, contact a professional who can help advise you on all angles of the trustee or probate process.

The movies have given people certain expectations when it comes to a death in the family and probating a will; this Hollywood portrayal includes an attorney, a book-lined office, and the entire family assembled for a formal reading of the will which ends in shocked gasps as the entire fortune goes to an unknown and unlikely character. Inevitably, there is some intrigue surrounding a possible forgery of the will. 

This Hollywood portrayal may be completely off base, but the basic premise is based on the very real feelings that come with the death of a loved one: helplessness, confusion, familial bonds, and sometimes even betrayal. Forged or secret wills may not be as common as the movies may have us believe, but as recent events and this article in the Wall Street Journal reveal, they aren’t completely unheard of either.

So what should you do if you suspect that the will of a loved one has been forged or tampered with? First of all, don’t try to deal with the situation alone. Dealing with the death of a loved one is stressful and emotional, and everyone—including you—is likely to be quicker than usual to react without thinking. Instead, seek the advice of a trusted third party, someone who can help you distance yourself and look at the situation objectively.

As mentioned in the article above, will forgeries are very rare, but incidents of testators (especially elderly testators) being unduly influenced are sadly not rare enough.  If you suspect foul play was involved in the creation of a loved one’s will, make an appointment with an estate or probate specialist.  We can help you work through your suspicions in a safe environment and explore your options should you feel the need to take action.

Losing a spouse is one of the most difficult experiences life has to offer. Even continuing to take one day at a time seems almost impossible when you’ve lost your partner, your mate, the love of your life.  Many people who have lost a spouse describe feeling as though the rug has been pulled out from under their feet; they feel like a child again, having to re-learn how to interact in the world without their other half.

The emotional loss is only part of this confusion, especially if—like most partnerships—you and your spouse ran your household and finances with a division of labor, each partner taking on the responsibilities that they most enjoyed and were most suited to perform… this includes the financial responsibility.  The emotional impact of losing a spouse is hard enough, but in today’s complex financial world what do you do if the spouse you’ve lost was the family CFO?

The first and most important step, according to this article from the Chicago Tribune, is organization.  Knowing what your balance is, what your expenses are, and where important documents are located is absolutely key to getting through the rough patches.  The second step—and this one may be the hardest—is taking stock of your new financial situation and adjusting your lifestyle and spending. Losing a portion of your family’s income is a shock, and people often go through the motions of their previous lives because they simply can’t yet face the reality of their loss.  In addition, death comes with its own set of expenses which can make a substantial dent in your savings. 

If you feel you just don’t have the strength or focus to deal with financial issues immediately following the death of your spouse ask someone to help you temporarily.  Eventually, when the grieving process has run its course, you will surface again; and when that happens you don’t want to find that the life you knew has been buried under debt.

Many people think that owning property in joint tenancy means they don’t have to create a will or estate plan. Why bother with a will when all the property is going to your joint tenancy partner anyway? In fact (some people may ask) why not do away with the need for a will altogether and hold property in joint tenancy with my children? The answer to that question is that although joint tenancy may allow your heirs to avoid probate, it carries with it a number of problems and is NOT a replacement for a well-executed will or estate plan.

One of the primary problems with owning property in joint tenancy with your children is that, in the words of Phil Craig in his article Joint Tenancy: How Not to Avoid Probate, “Joint tenancy sure is easy to create, but sure is hard to end.” As Craig illustrates in his article, owning property jointly with your children may seem harmless at first, but what happens if your child gets married or divorced, gets sued, or even joins a cult?

Beyond the essential question of ownership, joint tenancy as an estate planning method falls short in numerous other ways as well; owning property in joint tenancy with your children does not do anything to minimize your estate taxes—In some ways it may actually increase your taxes. Additionally, owning property in joint tenancy with more than one of your children prohibits the other owners from leaving their share of the property to their own heirs.

Finally, even as husband and wife, holding property in joint tenancy has its dangers. If one of you were to become incapacitated or mentally incompetent, the other would have to obtain a conservatorship from the court before being able to sell or take any other legal action with the property. Having the ability to sell or refinance quickly could become a necessity when medical bills are piling up. Look into owning your home as community property instead.

There are ways to avoid making probate a necessity after your death, but joint tenancy—while it may be quick and somewhat easy to achieve—is neither a quick nor easy solution to probate. Take the time to create a quality will or estate plan. Your assets will be protected in the long run, and your heirs will thank you in the end.

There are a number of mistakes that an estate planning and probate attorney will see over and over again over the course of their career. Many of these mistakes seem small, but can have a huge negative impact on your family after your death. More often than not these mistakes are made by people trying to create cheap and “easy” plans on their own without the guidance of an experienced professional. Luckily, these mistakes can be easily rectified with a phone call or a visit to our office.

Have you made any of the following mistakes in your estate plan?

10. Choosing guardians for your children who are far away, with no instructions for temporary guardians.

9. Hiding your estate documents (and other important financial documents, for that matter) away “somewhere safe” where no one can find them… not even when they need to find them.

8. Neglecting to leave information about your online accounts and assets.

7. Leaving it to your family to fight over mementos and heirlooms instead of creating a personal property memorandum.

6. Forgetting to coordinate beneficiary designations on retirement accounts, life insurance policies, or other similar assets.

5. Neglecting to review your trust regularly (once every 2-5 years).

4. Not naming backup (or remote contingent) beneficiaries.

3. Naming only one Agent or Trustee, with no alternates.

2. Neglecting to fund your trust.

And the number 1 mistake to avoid when planning your estate is this: Not making a plan in the first place!

Have you ever wondered just how little you could get away with in your last will and testament? Aletta Stager of Brooklyn, NY holds the distinction of having executed one of the shortest wills on record—a mere 2 lines long!

“Nov. 29, 1895. I give to my cousin, Nettie M. Cowan, all money that I have in the Bowery Savings Bank.
Aletta Stager, 131 Berkeley Place, Brooklyn, N.Y.”

Of course, things have changed in the probate and estate planning world in the one hundred plus years since Ms. Stager executed her will. A glaring omission from the two lines above is the nomination of an executor. If you don’t nominate an executor in your will the state will choose one for you. Also, even if you have only one person in mind as your beneficiary, you’ll want to talk to an attorney about secondary beneficiaries, who can include charities and non-profits if you don’t have any family or friends to whom you’d like to leave your estate.

Even back in 1895 Aletta Stager’s property ended up going to the state of New York when no heirs—including the named beneficiary—could be found. Perhaps if Ms. Stager had included a couple more lines in her will her estate could have gone to benefit her favorite charity instead of being swallowed up by the state.

“The death of a loved one imposes cruel demands on the closest survivors.” The truth of that statement from this article in moneywatch.com is known to anybody who has lost a close friend or family member. We’ve written a lot on our blog about going through the probate process when a loved one dies, but probate isn’t the only thing you have to think about; in fact, it may not even be the first thing you should think about. At a time when you are bombarded by as many emotional demands as you are mundane demands, how can you know what to do first?

The article mentioned above contains a helpful guide for those who are dealing with loss. It includes well-known items such as “contact close friends and family” and “make funeral arrangements” as well as items that may not come to mind as naturally, such as “write an obituary” and “contact the deceased’s employer.” Few people think about these things when under emotional strain, which is why this list is an excellent resource to file away for a time when it may be needed.

If you are having a particularly hard time with the grieving process don’t be afraid to ask others to help with the more difficult items, or to hand the list over entirely to someone else. This is when your own probate or estate planning attorney (or the deceased’s attorney, if they had one) can be especially helpful.

Although it sometimes feels as if time should stand still when someone we love passes away, life does go on, for better or worse. But the world is full of caring and knowledgeable people to help you through the process… if you only know where to look.

We acquire so many assets over the course of our lives now—bank accounts, stocks, real property, life insurance, retirement, and more—it’s almost impossible to know what has to go through probate and what doesn’t.

The answer to the question above is no; life insurance and retirement benefits do not have to go through probate if the account has a named beneficiary. Benefits from life insurance accounts can be paid directly to the named beneficiary, and money from IRAs, Keoghs, and 401(k) accounts transfer automatically to the named beneficiaries of those accounts as well. The persons named as beneficiary, however, will most likely want to consult with a financial advisor to determine what needs to be done with the proceeds from these accounts.

Yet another type of account that is not subject to probate is a pay on death (or POD) account, the money from which can pass directly to the named beneficiary upon the death of the owner.

Probate laws vary from state to state, so contact our office—or your own local attorney who specializes in probate—for more information.